I am awful at consistently blogging. I'm trying to fix that. I guess we can start with another update post. So, I moved to Indiana because an aunt here offered me a job. She said I could work for my uncle to save up to move back to South Carolina. She said I'd be working four days a week, making $10 an hour. After doing some math, I figured by July I'd be over-set to move back. With my calculations, I'd have a good chunk saved up. Well, things didn't go according to plan.
On the way to Indiana my vehicle stopped working on the interstate. I forget how long I waited for Triple A(maybe 4 hours) to come tell me that they didn't know what was wrong with it. It started up again and I made it to my aunt's house. Where my vehicle decided to stop working again.
I didn't get as much work as I was promised. It started off as 4 days, then dwindled to 2, then none. And even when I did work I didn't get paid in a timely matter. It took them 2 months to give me $500. When May rolled around they told me they couldn't afford to pay me and that I'd be heading home earlier than planned. Well, I still had the issue of my vehicle. They used my money(instead of handing it to me) to get me a new battery, then said it should be good. It's my vehicle, I know it's not just a battery issue. And then we noticed I had a cracked radiator so I had to get a new one. There went all $500 with nothing left over. I went over to my cousin's to hangout because the whole thing was stressing me out.
While I was there my sister messaged my aunt asking her how she expected me to leave when I had no money. My aunt told her that it wasn't her problem, that I should have gotten a job. Hmm, funny. I thought that's why I moved to Indiana. So my sister cursed her out and told her she was a worthless aunt. Then around the same time I had made a status about how I loved my mom. My uncle then comments on it, "Why? Did mommy send you money?" Which I then go on to say that I don't need to buy her love. (A jab at how he always buys my aunt stuff when he does something he shouldn't.
Which brings me back to the day I was told I was going to have to leave early. It was also the same day they fired the babysitter. She was fired because my aunt and uncle were having relationship issues because my uncle was high and tried to ask the babysitter for a threesome. The day before she was fired I spent the night at her house and received a message from my aunt saying she needed to speak to both of us. Neither of us wanted to go.
But anyways, a different aunt saw my uncle's comment and called him and bitched him out. So he texted me and said I needed to get my stuff from his house because I was nothing but drama. But all the drama that was "involving" me was being caused by them. I wasn't doing anything.
So now I had no money and no place to stay. My cousin, who also happened to live in Indy, said I could crash at his place. Then a couple months ago my vehicle broke down on the other side of the city(and it's still there). I had decided I was going to stay here instead of moving back to SC. The neighbor offered to buy it from me, even though it's not working. And that's still in the works.
I was already set on not moving back, but what really helped solidify it was when I started getting harassed online. I was getting anonymous messages on tumblr from someone calling me a whore and telling me to stop trying to break Nathan and his new girlfriend up. Now keep in mind that I hadn't talked to Nathan since me and Amber lived in the apartment. And I don't even think he was dating then. Plus, I was only catching up with him. I wasn't flirting. I've been over him for a long time. And apparently this same person had been harassing Nathan and his girlfriend pretending to be me, and acting like I was obsessed with Nathan. I ended up deleting half my facebook friends and taking anon off on tumblr. I didn't plan on coming back, and I was especially not coming back after that.
I also started dating recently. Met my boyfriend on Plenty of Fish. We hit it off right off the bat. I would get a lot of guys asking me what my favorite Pokemon was, but he sent me a whole paragraph talking about EV training. I was like, this guy knows his stuff. Plus he's really cute. We went on one date then entered into a relationship. I know that seems fast to some people, but I like moving fast. Which is usually an issue in every relationship I've been in, but this guy was also really serious about being in a relationship, so we're the same in that sense. He recently had to move 45 minutes away, which sucks, but hopefully I'll be seeing him next week.
Hopefully the next time I post there won't be any drama. haha
On the way to Indiana my vehicle stopped working on the interstate. I forget how long I waited for Triple A(maybe 4 hours) to come tell me that they didn't know what was wrong with it. It started up again and I made it to my aunt's house. Where my vehicle decided to stop working again.
I didn't get as much work as I was promised. It started off as 4 days, then dwindled to 2, then none. And even when I did work I didn't get paid in a timely matter. It took them 2 months to give me $500. When May rolled around they told me they couldn't afford to pay me and that I'd be heading home earlier than planned. Well, I still had the issue of my vehicle. They used my money(instead of handing it to me) to get me a new battery, then said it should be good. It's my vehicle, I know it's not just a battery issue. And then we noticed I had a cracked radiator so I had to get a new one. There went all $500 with nothing left over. I went over to my cousin's to hangout because the whole thing was stressing me out.
While I was there my sister messaged my aunt asking her how she expected me to leave when I had no money. My aunt told her that it wasn't her problem, that I should have gotten a job. Hmm, funny. I thought that's why I moved to Indiana. So my sister cursed her out and told her she was a worthless aunt. Then around the same time I had made a status about how I loved my mom. My uncle then comments on it, "Why? Did mommy send you money?" Which I then go on to say that I don't need to buy her love. (A jab at how he always buys my aunt stuff when he does something he shouldn't.
Which brings me back to the day I was told I was going to have to leave early. It was also the same day they fired the babysitter. She was fired because my aunt and uncle were having relationship issues because my uncle was high and tried to ask the babysitter for a threesome. The day before she was fired I spent the night at her house and received a message from my aunt saying she needed to speak to both of us. Neither of us wanted to go.
But anyways, a different aunt saw my uncle's comment and called him and bitched him out. So he texted me and said I needed to get my stuff from his house because I was nothing but drama. But all the drama that was "involving" me was being caused by them. I wasn't doing anything.
So now I had no money and no place to stay. My cousin, who also happened to live in Indy, said I could crash at his place. Then a couple months ago my vehicle broke down on the other side of the city(and it's still there). I had decided I was going to stay here instead of moving back to SC. The neighbor offered to buy it from me, even though it's not working. And that's still in the works.
I was already set on not moving back, but what really helped solidify it was when I started getting harassed online. I was getting anonymous messages on tumblr from someone calling me a whore and telling me to stop trying to break Nathan and his new girlfriend up. Now keep in mind that I hadn't talked to Nathan since me and Amber lived in the apartment. And I don't even think he was dating then. Plus, I was only catching up with him. I wasn't flirting. I've been over him for a long time. And apparently this same person had been harassing Nathan and his girlfriend pretending to be me, and acting like I was obsessed with Nathan. I ended up deleting half my facebook friends and taking anon off on tumblr. I didn't plan on coming back, and I was especially not coming back after that.
I also started dating recently. Met my boyfriend on Plenty of Fish. We hit it off right off the bat. I would get a lot of guys asking me what my favorite Pokemon was, but he sent me a whole paragraph talking about EV training. I was like, this guy knows his stuff. Plus he's really cute. We went on one date then entered into a relationship. I know that seems fast to some people, but I like moving fast. Which is usually an issue in every relationship I've been in, but this guy was also really serious about being in a relationship, so we're the same in that sense. He recently had to move 45 minutes away, which sucks, but hopefully I'll be seeing him next week.
Hopefully the next time I post there won't be any drama. haha
