Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Here We Go Again.

I am awful at consistently blogging. I'm trying to fix that. I guess we can start with another update post. So, I moved to Indiana because an aunt here offered me a job. She said I could work for my uncle to save up to move back to South Carolina. She said I'd be working four days a week, making $10 an hour. After doing some math, I figured by July I'd be over-set to move back. With my calculations, I'd have a good chunk saved up. Well, things didn't go according to plan.
On the way to Indiana my vehicle stopped working on the interstate. I forget how long I waited for Triple A(maybe 4 hours) to come tell me that they didn't know what was wrong with it. It started up again and I made it to my aunt's house. Where my vehicle decided to stop working again.
I didn't get as much work as I was promised. It started off as 4 days, then dwindled to 2, then none. And even when I did work I didn't get paid in a timely matter. It took them 2 months to give me $500. When May rolled around they told me they couldn't afford to pay me and that I'd be heading home earlier than planned. Well, I still had the issue of my vehicle. They used my money(instead of handing it to me) to get me a new battery, then said it should be good. It's my vehicle, I know it's not just a battery issue. And then we noticed I had a cracked radiator so I had to get a new one. There went all $500 with nothing left over. I went over to my cousin's to hangout because the whole thing was stressing me out.
While I was there my sister messaged my aunt asking her how she expected me to leave when I had no money. My aunt told her that it wasn't her problem, that I should have gotten a job. Hmm, funny. I thought that's why I moved to Indiana. So my sister cursed her out and told her she was a worthless aunt. Then around the same time I had made a status about how I loved my mom. My uncle then comments on it, "Why? Did mommy send you money?" Which I then go on to say that I don't need to buy her love. (A jab at how he always buys my aunt stuff when he does something he shouldn't.
Which brings me back to the day I was told I was going to have to leave early. It was also the same day they fired the babysitter. She was fired because my aunt and uncle were having relationship issues because my uncle was high and tried to ask the babysitter for a threesome. The day before she was fired I spent the night at her house and received a message from my aunt saying she needed to speak to both of us. Neither of us wanted to go.
But anyways, a different aunt saw my uncle's comment and called him and bitched him out. So he texted me and said I needed to get my stuff from his house because I was nothing but drama. But all the drama that was "involving" me was being caused by them. I wasn't doing anything.
So now I had no money and no place to stay. My cousin, who also happened to live in Indy, said I could crash at his place. Then a couple months ago my vehicle broke down on the other side of the city(and it's still there). I had decided I was going to stay here instead of moving back to SC. The neighbor offered to buy it from me, even though it's not working. And that's still in the works.
I was already set on not moving back, but what really helped solidify it was when I started getting harassed online. I was getting anonymous messages on tumblr from someone calling me a whore and telling me to stop trying to break Nathan and his new girlfriend up. Now keep in mind that I hadn't talked to Nathan since me and Amber lived in the apartment. And I don't even think he was dating then. Plus, I was only catching up with him. I wasn't flirting. I've been over him for a long time. And apparently this same person had been harassing Nathan and his girlfriend pretending to be me, and acting like I was obsessed with Nathan. I ended up deleting half my facebook friends and taking anon off on tumblr. I didn't plan on coming back, and I was especially not coming back after that.
I also started dating recently. Met my boyfriend on Plenty of Fish. We hit it off right off the bat. I would get a lot of guys asking me what my favorite Pokemon was, but he sent me a whole paragraph talking about EV training. I was like, this guy knows his stuff. Plus he's really cute. We went on one date then entered into a relationship. I know that seems fast to some people, but I like moving fast. Which is usually an issue in every relationship I've been in, but this guy was also really serious about being in a relationship, so we're the same in that sense. He recently had to move 45 minutes away, which sucks, but hopefully I'll be seeing him next week.
Hopefully the next time I post there won't be any drama. haha

Saturday, January 19, 2013

A Breakdown of my Life in Ohio.

To further prove the craziness of these months I've lived here, let me break down each month.

May- Got my first job.

June- Lost my virginity. (Lets not dwell on the fact that I lost my virginty at 20)

July- Get in big fight with dad where he calls me a cunt and I have an anxiety attack also my cousin gets murdered this month.

August- Quit my job. And here starts the money troubles.

September- Start dating Scott. We get in dramatic fights that involve him not talking to me for two weeks bc I went home after he cussed me out for waking him up bc he was hogging the bed.

October- A whole bunch of crazy fighting between my sister and her baby daddy happens. Including him cutting himself on purpose in our apartment and getting blood everywhere.

November- Find out the dude I've been messing with since June has had a gf since July.

December- We move out of our apartment and are supposed to move in with great grandparents but find out uncle took the keys so we almost end up homeless. Also I drive 2.5hours to pick up my ex from another girls house and we run out of gas on the way back.

January- Sister kicks me out and I'm homeless for two days.

wtf

Around 11pm my sister asks if I can watch Zeke in the morning while shes at work. My aunt tells her I'm on my way. I get there and the door is locked and no one is answering. So I figure I'll just head over to my ex's and then go back over in the morning.

So then I'm at my ex's for two hours and he tells me I can't stay there. I walk over to my grandma's and the door is locked. I walk back over to Scott's so I can sit somewhere warm while I try to find someone who will let me stay with them.

Cory says I can stay. He's the guy who had a gf. I stay there and wake up in the morning and my vehicle won't start. I go to ask Cory if he can jump it for me and he had apparently locked the door. I start knocking and I see him turn the volume up on his tv and go back to sleep. What the crap.

So yeahh. This is the type of crap I have to go through with guys in this town. -_-

Friday, January 18, 2013

Its been awhile.

Wow, I haven't been on in forever. Sooo, I'm making a quick post to update on what's going on, and I'll try to post at least once a week.

Sooo, I moved to Ohio and I hate it here. The weather sucks, there's absolutely nothing to do here, I don't like the people, and I'm just insanely miserable. I only have $3 in my bank account, so I'm trying to find a job so I can save up and move back to SC.

I've had a lot of guy issues. I was messing around with this guy from June to November, then in November I found out that he had a gf since July. It really pissed me off that I unwillingly contributed to cheating.

 Then I have an ex is always wishy washy. One minute he acts like he likes me, then the next he's a douchebag towards me. I drove 2.5hours to pick him up from another girl's house, I had to empty my savings just for gas, I got lost, then we had to pull over for two hours b/c the roads were icy, then we ran out of gas. -_- Then a week later he asks for $5. I tell him I only have $3 and he has the nerve to ask why I can't borrow $2 from someone.

I'm living with my aunt. I was living with my sister but she kicked me out. Didn't automatically move in with my aunt, ended up staying with my ex for two nights.

So yeahhh, that's whats been going on. Now just trying to get out of here.

(Oh, also my cousin was murdered.)

Monday, August 29, 2011

I'm Sorry Guys.

I'd like to apologize to my followers for not posting a lot lately. I haven't been on lately because a lot of the blogs I follow haven't really been posting. Also, I just got on tumblr. With tumblr I don't feel obligated to make semi long posts; it can be a sentence. If I made a sentence long blog on here I feel like that would just be ridiculous. Also, I can reblog things that I think are cool. Don't get me wrong, I love Blogger, but I'll most likely post on Tumblr. If you want to follow me over there it's eveejoystar.tumblr.com and it's still The Life of eveejoystar. Sorry guys.